R.I.P my darling Stubby

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R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby Roxy81 on Sun Mar 14, 2010 2:57 pm

Its been a rather rough weekend. Friday night after an urgent run to the animal emerg., my Stubby didn't make it home. The experience has been shocking, and I cannot imagine how quiet the house will be now without her in it; her sister keeps looking for her, and although its been years since they've gotten along, Mikey keeps seeking her out. We brought the carrier back into the house without thinking and since then Mikey thinks we've hidden Stubby in the basement.

Since I no longer live at home with my parents, I was told on Friday morning that Stubby hadn't eaten since Thursday morning, I started to worry, but later when I was informed she hadn't had any fluids either, it was kind of hard not to panic!! I found out after she had passed that two days before she had an incident of muscle paralysis - she was grooming herself - her back - and she got 'stuck' in that position, my sister had to help her get out of that position; but after that she seemed fine - back to playing, whining, playing follow the leader. By the time I got there, she looked spent, her nose was dry, her breathing was quick and shallow - I had a feeling that she may not make it home. At the clinic, her temperature was normal, her weight was pretty low - she had lost quite a bit of weight over the last 1.5 years, her pulse rate was a little low (138 - the vet found it strange), her thyroid glands were slightly enlarged, her heart was about twice its normal size, and she presented with a very loud heart murmur (theres never been a murmur detected at her last vet exam), but her lungs where clear (no indication of fluid) and until Thursday night had no decrease in activity level (she was an extremely active cat). The vet really had no answers. Her symptoms where a mix and match of an array of diseases, regardless, her breathing was worsening - even with sitting in an oxygen tank for more then two hours. We made the decision to not have her suffer anymore. It was the hardest decision I have ever had to make for her. :cry:

When I visited her in her oxygen tank, she was so excited to see me, she had her tail vibrating, and she purred in infamous purr (we always use to joke that people in China could hear her). It was really stressful for her to do any tests and they shortened her breathing even more; they did an x-ray - planned on doing two sided plate view, they could only manage to do one before she started to fade.

Once my family arrived, she struggled to sit up once more for my mom and dad, and bob her head as she has always done in her way of greeting everyone when they arrived home. She looked so peaceful in the end. I don't know what the underlying cause of her demise is, she's always had so many factors against her, but she was always so happy and strong, even in the end when all of us weren't. :cry:
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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby Marley's Mom on Sun Mar 14, 2010 3:33 pm

I am so sorry :cry: My thoughts and tears are with you :cry:
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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby Katie on Sun Mar 14, 2010 5:20 pm

Sorry to hear about this. It's so sad been with your little one at the end but at least they had the comfort of you being there and your love.

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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby eswepe on Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:00 am

I am so sorry to hear about this. It's so hard to lose a special cat. At least you were there for her at the end. :-(

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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby seamuskitty on Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:24 am

Awwww Rox! I am so sorry about Stubby! That is terrible. My heart goes out to you. Bless Stubby.

She will be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge.

And yes, you were lucky to be there with her in the end.

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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby Roxy81 on Tue Mar 16, 2010 1:47 am

Thank you all of you for your very kind words, its helped being on here and being able to have people understand what we all go through when we lose a pet. Its difficult for people who aren't animal lovers to truly sympathize and understand the bonds that we have with our pets; they are a vital part of our families.

Its been hard, but we have the comfort that we've given Stubby a good life, and hopefully wherever she is, she's happy, with an endless supply of cat-nip and treat-balls; as those were her favourites.

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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby Peepers on Tue Mar 16, 2010 2:59 am

I am truly sorry and totally empathize with your loss. I've had 3 such losses in the last 2 years, and all of them - 1 in particular - were most heart wrenching. It's something you never quite get over. I know there are a lot of people who have had similar experiences; it's one of the heartaches among the many joys of being a pet parent.

I know Stubby was happy being well cared for by you and your family, and it was a great comfort for her to have you there in the end. I know she will be missed, but also always a part of you. I know you gave her a good life - and now, in her honor, you can do the same for these next two little darlings! She was a very lucky little gal to have been loved so much.

Good luck and good life with the gorgeous new little ones; and I know you will always cherish the memories of Stubby.
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Re: R.I.P my darling Stubby

Postby Jackpot & Bentley on Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:41 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. I sit here in tears now. My thoughts are with you. I am glad you got to spend those last moments with her. Just remember she knew how much you loved her. You did the right thing as much as your mind may try to tell you otherwise.

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